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DMs Decoded

Some of the absurdity that slides into my DMs (and my responses + analysis)

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Ashley Manta
Jun 03, 2025
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I’ve decided it’s time to share some of the audacious messages that I receive while moving through the world as a sexologist. Typically I try to be as polite and professional as possible, but sometimes, I’m ovulating. Today is one of those days.

I received this charming message from a 39 year old “Dom” guy on Fetlife (for those unfamiliar, Fetlife is li…

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