Why I Recommend Scheduling Sex

(and Why It's Not as Unsexy as You Think)

I often get resistance when I suggest scheduling sex as a way to boost intimacy and make sex even better.

“But you lose all the spontaneity!” they exclaim.

Okay, I hear you. I really do. I see how it might seem like that at first glance. Scheduling sex—yes, actually putting it on the calendar—requires a mindset shift. It asks you to approach intimacy with